42 Ways To Honour Your Man
2. Let him know he’s important to you. Always say it and show it.
3. Purposefully try to understand his feelings—even
when you disagree with him.
Minimize the frequency of your disagreement.
4. Show interest in his friends giving him some time
with them if they’re trust-worthy.
5. Let go of the small stuff. We all have annoying
habits and preferences that are different from our
spouse’s. Don't impose what you love on him.
6. Tell him you both love him AND like him.
7. Either show interest in his hobbies or allow him
space to participate freely. Allow him to enjoy and relax himself.
8. Protect his dignity on a daily basis. Don't talk bad of him and don't allow your friends to do same.
9. When confronting him, realize he has feelings
also and not a saint.
10. Foster an atmosphere of laughter in your relationship.
Look for ways to laugh together.
11. Try not to make sudden major changes without
discussion, giving him time to know and adjust.
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up problems—have fun instead and not quarries.
13. Focus on what he’s doing right, instead of
focusing so often on the negatives. Celebrate his positives, PRAY about his negatives.
14. Show interest in what he feels is important in
life.
15. Give him special time with you without you playing with your phone.
16. The first minutes after a spouse comes to visit you
often sets the stage for how the rest of the evening
will go. Try to make that time a positive experience.
17. Give him time to be alone.
18. Don’t allow family members to treat him
disrespectfully. Defend him to anyone that
dishonors his place as your husband to be.
19. Compliment him often.
20. Be creative when you express your love, both in
words and in actions. SIN NOT!
21. Talk with him about having specific courtship/ family goals for each year to achieve together to feel closer as a potential marital team.
22. Don’t over commit yourself and monitor him as if he is a criminal who must not run away. Leave time for him.
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when he offends you.
24. Find ways to show him you need him.
25. Give him time to be alone. (This energizes him
to reconnect at other times.)
26. Admit your mistakes; don’t be afraid to be
humble. Peel away your pride.
27. Defend him to those who disrespectfully talk
about him. Love protects (1 Cor. 13:7).
28. Respect his desire to do well—not his
performance.
29. Love talking with him.
30. Take time for the two of you to sit and talk
calmly (schedule it when necessary).
31. Initiate going out on outings, seminar, prayer retreat etc.
32. Text him when he’s at work, telling him how
much you love him.
33. Surprise him with a fun gift of some kind that
he’d really enjoy.
34. Express how much you appreciate him for
working so hard in preparing for you proposed home.
35. Tell him how proud you are of him for who he is (giving him specific reasons).
36. Give advice in a loving way — not in a nagging
or belittling way.
37. Help your Man to be the Spiritual head of your relationship (without “lording” it over him).
38. Pray for him to enjoy God’s best in life.
39. Take special notice for what he has done for
you.
40. Brag about him to other people both in front of
him and even when he’s not there.
41. Keep conversations brief when he’s tired—so he
isn’t “flooded” by too many words. Learn not to talk too much. When he is tired or hungry, it is not the right time to give him SUPER STORY.
42. Tell him 3 things you specifically appreciate
about him.
*Pst Gesh*
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