ONE DANGEROUS MISTAKE MOST SINGLES MAKE

One Dangerous Mistake Most Singles Make

One fatal mistake to make prior marriage is to know that your intended is not faithful and you still insist that you love her/him just like that. It’s an indication that you don’t know what love is or that you are also unfaithful.

Faithfulness is a virtue which must be present in every relationships. Banks fails today due to unfaithful practices among staff or BOT. Military groups are ambushed due to unfaithfulness of a soldier or some groups among the military commands. Marriages are failing due to one or both spouses decided to be unfaithful. Love is meaningless when faithfulness is not a daily practice.

I write this to you today because I don’t want you to be a victim of bad relationship/marriage. The subject of faithfulness cannot be ignored no matter the intention. You can’t love someone and still cheat or steal from such.

You are stealing peace away from your partner when you are pregnant for someone else and still pin it on him because he has total love for you. Mama, you are a thief, if he is deceived into fathering another man’s child.

You are stealing peace away from your partner when you are sexually reckless, got STD, treated it but your “rod” performance has been injured, yet you make her belief that you are still a virgin.

You got to be sincere with your relationship, not just for today’s benefit but for the future. Your proclaimed love should not make you blind to facts that would negatively affect your marital future. The future of your marriage is more important than the romance you are having now. Marriage is futuristic therefore you must make good and wise decisions you won't regret.

Brother Philip and our dear Sister Lizzy, are you sure you have found a faithful partner? Have you found a Sis who you can handover your ATM card to, with the PIN and she would not spend recklessly? Have you found a brother who would still be faithful to you even when you are pregnant? Would he not be part of those husbands who use their wife’s pregnancy to sleep around? If doctor advice that you totally stay away from sex because of your health during pregnancy, would your husband be able to do without sex for that long?

Are you sure this your Sis Lizzy is going to be a faithful wife? Have you really checked this out? Have you used money to test her? Does she give you change for what you gave her money to buy? Does price of commodity change each time she is the one that went to buy them? I heard you gave her #15,000 for her departmental field trip, sir, was that actually the cost of the trip? You may feel cool about her lying to collect money from you because your goal is to impress her. Yea, that's what a lot of Brothers do. They are out to impress, so when they see what to correct or check, they look the other way because they don't want to offend her. But Brother Philip, will you feel cool later when you realized that she inflated your children’s school fees?

Sis Lizzy, all those ladies he calls his sisters, niece, course mate etc. are they truly who he says they are? Are you sure you are only the one in his life?

 A guy that is not faithful will be full of lies because he needs more lies to cover up his unfaithfulness. Don’t be fooled. Don’t allow anybody to call ash color white for you. Don’t allow desperation, sentiment and pride make your turn blind eyes to warning signs.

You should be sensitive, ask questions, open your eyes, read between the lines, investigate his or her claim to be faithful, don’t be blind to his/her lies and unfaithfulness. Don’t just hear what he or she says, hear how it’s said.

A reason why lovers claim love is blind is because they intentionally turned away when God was showing them what they needed to see. They failed to examine such logically; rather they choose to see it emotionally.

 Anybody you choose to marry must be faithful both relationship and financial wise. You must be able to trust her with your life and the resources of your life. She must be a godly sister that will not keep two relationship at the same time. He must be a godly brother that will not keep to brothers at the same time.

When it comes to investing your money, you do due diligence, making sure that you won't loose your money to fraudulent investment, but why can't we do same to our hearts. A stranger cannot walk up to you and ask you to investment the whole of your life's resources into his business and you will do so same day. But a total stranger walks up to us during a party, professing to love us, and we compile instantly. Is this wise? Why invest your heart into a relationship you have not found to be faithful?

Don’t be in a relationship with a person who you are servicing as an “extra-tyre”. This is not a Christian practice, and it is a sign that such person has not allowed the Holy Spirit to work in his or her life and the Holy Spirit has not been allowed to mortify the works of the flesh in such fellow.

For you to have access to the true content of his or her life you need the Holy Spirit. He will help you to discern and rightly divide the Word of Truth in the face of chronic deceit, falsehood and unfaithfulness. The Holy Spirit is the revealer of deep things. It's time He is resident in your life. You have done enough going to consult people who have Him, have Him to yourself if you must life a victorious Christian life.

Grow in your work with God so that you can get to the realm where you cannot be manipulated again with dreams, visions and prophesies.

 ©Pst Gesh