TITLE CANNOT DO IT

That the brother is a youth president, fellowship pastor, youth coordinator or prayer coordinator doesn't mean he's suitable for you in marriage. Marriage is for personality not title. Yes, he can be a GOOD man and not be the RIGHT man. You are safe marrying the RIGHT man and not the GOOD man. The GOOD man is RIGHT for someone else but not you.

That the sister can pray, firebrand, tongue speaking or can sing equally means nothing to make her eligible for you in marriage. Who is she when she isn't under the anointing? She can be a ministry material but not life partner. There is more to your life than ministry. If she fits into your ministry and not your life, then there would be serious crisis. You need a woman who can stand with you not just on the altar but at home too.

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I do not doubt the fact that this brother is anointed. But the fact remains that he operates with the gifts of the spirit and not the fruits of the spirit. Yes, the waive of his hands makes people fall under the anointing but that same hands he uses to pull down pants of numerous fellowship sisters (no thanks to the fact that these sisters want to sex their ways into marrying him). Oh! This brother is too anointed. But he is a flirt!


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All of these packed public personally impression will change if God doesn't arrest his or her heart fast. A brother publicly seen as Youth Pastor may be a serial fornicator. A sister publicly seen as Worship Leader may be a chronic lesbian.


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Let God guide you in your choice of a marriage partner because marriage is not for now but a futuristic journey. He can be good for you now but will he be good for you in the future? She might be supporting your ministry now but won't she be the reason people would stop coming to your ministry later in marriage?



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 A lot of brothers in the church are available for marriage but some are not matured enough to handle the demands of marriage. He has to be equipped to be a husband first and then a father. These two are not the same. There are WORKS to be done in marriage.



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Same, a lot of sisters in the church are available for marriage but are not matured enough to handle the demands of marriage. Oh! How I wish we have enough emotionally matured sisters. Sister that can't be moved my, "If you don't allow me to sleep with you now, then this relationship is over". How I wish our sisters can let that DOG go away to where he is coming from.


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Don't be part of those "Christians" who lead themselves into marriage when God is waiting to lead them in the right path maritally. God wouldn't force His leading on you, you are free to follow His leading or yours. It's better and sweeter when He is your leader. You need a Shepherd to lead you to the still waters of marriage. Your pastor or parents can't be your Shepherd, only Christ can do that.


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 Pst Gesh